The Colombian-Lebanese singer Shakira appears to us from time to time, with a new song in which she talks at times about the betrayal of her lover, former Barcelona club player Gerard Pique Bernabeu, and at another time she talks about her feelings after the separation and his exploitation of her during their relationship, and finally Pique’s monitoring of her on “Social Media”, in her song new “TQGFor this reason, we review in the report the reasons for not overcoming the ex-boyfriend, according to the website.globalnews.”.

Reasons not to get over an ex after a breakup

Inability to face the truth of the matter

Many people, after separation, cannot understand and accept reality, and that separation will inevitably happen, so they cling to the idea that they are still in their emotional relationship and always remember the happy times they lived with the ex-lover and refuse to start over because they invested a lot of time in this relationship.

Monitoring the lover on social media

Social media has made it easy for people to follow each other, so the other party keeps chasing the ex-lover all the time on his own pages on social networking sites, and also refuses to get rid of the old photos that brought them together, and watches them from time to time, which makes it difficult for him to get over the ex-lover. And he exposes himself to feeling pain and jealousy whenever he sees the other party overstepping him and entering into a new relationship.

Another picture of Shakira and Pique

illogical ending

The end of the relationship in a sudden and illogical way, which makes it difficult to move forward and forget the matter, especially since the person keeps searching all the time for the reasons that led to the end of this relationship until he finds an explanation for the end he reached, so he advises the person who cannot overcome the matter to accept reality and make a plan New for his future and seeks to work on it.

Shakira and Pique

Low self-esteem

The fear of not finding another lover again causes a person to think about the former lover, and this results from a loss of self-confidence, so the person lives in the hope of returning again, fixing what was corrupted in the relationship, and opening a new page with him.

The relationship revolved around one person

If the emotional relationship revolves around one person, who is the dominant and defining person, it becomes difficult to accept the separation, and the feeling of abandonment creeps in, especially if the other party is so infatuated with the ex-lover that it makes him afraid to return to his past life without him.