To achieve this, Parents advises you to follow the following tips:

1- Speak frankly and respectfully:

Parents should avoid abuse and defamation, and speak frankly and respectfully. Using phrases like “I feel” instead of “You always do” can help express an opinion without making accusations, and you should also listen sincerely to your partner and consider their views.

2- Paying attention to the impact on children:

Pay attention to the impact of the conflict on the children, and make it clear to them explicitly that marital conflicts are normal, but they must be dealt with properly and respectfully.

3- Avoid using children as messengers between spouses:

You should avoid using children as messengers between spouses, and avoid provoking conflicts between them or trying to win them over to a party.

4- Admitting mistakes:

In the event that any of the partners committed a mistake, it must be acknowledged and apologized for, as this gives the children a positive lesson in the importance of apologizing and that it does not diminish those who apologize on the contrary.

5- Positivity:

Marital conflicts can be used to improve the relationship and build a strong bond between the two partners, by focusing on mutual solutions rather than exacerbating the conflict.

6- Attention to timing:

It is preferable to postpone the discussion in the event of large and hectic disagreements, and to wait until the children fall asleep to complete the discussion in a closed room.