The neighbor is one of the closest people to us, we live in one building, and this means that we are one big family, so the right of the neighbor is that we respect and appreciate him and stand next to him in good times and bad, and help him in everything he needs, but there are some neighbors who are curious to know everything that happens in the homes of their neighbors And this matter raises the distress and irritation of some neighbors in deepening their relationship with them and making them close friends, so “The Seventh Day” reviews, during the following lines, the etiquette of dealing with the neighbor who has many questions, according to what Hala Al-Azab, an expert in etiquette and human relations, indicated.

The etiquette expert said to “The Seventh Day”: “If any of you encounters nosy neighbors, he must deal with him intelligently and in a way that preserves his personal space in order to maintain a good relationship with him and also thwart his curiosity and excessive interference in his life:.

And she continued: “It may happen by chance and the meeting takes place in the elevator. Some neighbors may find in this interview a good opportunity for dialogue and asking questions, and it may be simple questions that do not work, but they satisfy their curiosity, so we must not prolong standing in the building’s roads or on the stairs and asking permission for something.” Urgent, but if there are visits between you and the neighbors, this may be a valuable opportunity for the curious neighbor, in order to ask questions that satisfy her curiosity, so you have to be smart in your responses.

Etiquette to deal with the inquisitive personality

And she continued: “Do not go on talking about an important matter related to your family’s secrets. Going on about common matters related to the owners’ union. Problems related to real estate or building concern all neighbors. As for private questions, you can change the topic, by asking permission from your neighbor to bring the duty of hospitality, and after your return, you must change the topic and go on about the topic.” Another is that you can also face a torrent of questions with the same type of questions. When you ask her, she may put her in front of a mirror, so she tells herself that these questions were excessive too, especially if they are at the core of your privacy, such as your confusion. Your salary is enough for you, praise be to God, and so on from the elegant responses that do not embarrass others.

And she says: “But if your neighbor does not ask you personally, but only asks your children, then you must teach your children and advise them not to stand with one of the neighbors and allow them to interrogate them and know their secrets and ask them questions about the privacy of the house, so the child must respond that he does not know and that the answer is With parents only, also the mother should not embarrass her nosy neighbor and speak to her gently and calmly asking her that if she wants to know any information or answer any question, it should be with her personally and not with her children, because they do not know any information about adults or the privacy of the house.

Nosy Neighbor