If your neighbors are nosy, a family counselor puts a prescription to limit their interference with your privacy
Amman Today
publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
With constant friction and open relations with neighbors, and the lack of controls for the relationship and limits for interference, and because of the gatherings of neighbors that are not restricted by conditions, the houses are open without regard for sanctities and privacy. Some neighbors monitor the family in all their interactions and follow them in their daily activities and when fulfilling their needs, or when buying household supplies, whether appliances or changing furniture. Interference may occur in the smallest details of the marital relationship to the point of tracking the washing and spreading of the couple’s clothes, as well as monitoring the exit and entry, as it is almost as if they live with each other. The family, so “The Seventh Day” reviews, in the following lines, some tips to prevent your neighbors from entering the privacy of your home, according to Shaima Iraqi, a family consultant and behavior modification.
The family relations consultant said in her speech to “The Seventh Day”: “Due to the nature of daily life from one place to another and from one region to another, we find in popular places the relations of neighbors that have no restrictions. popular neighborhoods.
And she continued: “Excessive interference may be reflected in the form of behavioral problems between neighbors and the family and breaking the barriers of custom and religion. For intervention, there are positive factors of reunion, family spirit, and interdependence on all occasions, in joys and sorrows.
Neighbors get involved
Some tips for setting up intervention controls
– He should Choosing appropriate times for visits, taking into account the times of food, drink, sleep and nap time by not visiting the neighbor in order to prevent embarrassment
– Not to interfere as a party in the problems of the family and spouses, and not to eavesdrop and listen to family news, especially in the case of a loud voice and a heated dialogue between the family. Neighbors are required not to interfere except in the narrowest cases that require intervention during the quarrel to separate the spouses and reconcile between them
Do not keep track of the family’s purchases, especially when it comes to changing house furniture. Neighbors should not be asked about the prices of appliances or furniture in order to prevent embarrassment to the family. The family may wish not to inform the neighbors of the extent of their financial spending.
The feelings of the family must be taken into account on occasions and during exam periods by not making noise or provoking the family in cases of marital problems or calibrating them for their lack of financial capabilities.
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