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Love or just attachment? Know the difference before you continue your romantic relationship

Amman Today

publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00

Many girls do not know whether the love they feel is true love towards their partner, or just feelings of attachment that will end after a while. Some may not know the difference between them. There are some signs of knowing true love from the feelings of attachment, to controlling the future life to avoid any unexpected emotional problems, according to the “”lifehack“.

Signs that show the difference between true love and attachment:

Love is selfless, but attachment is selfish

When a person is in love, he focuses a lot on trying to make the other party happy, and making sure all the time that he feels satisfied and loved, while thinking in different ways, and he does not argue about who helps the most, and he does not fight over who is supposed to wash the dishes, because the partner does not blackmail the partner emotionally , or does not seek to control it.

In the case of attachment to a person, the focus is focused all the time on making the person happy and completely dependent on the other party, and trying to control him, to avoid abandonment one day, instead of facing problems.




Love is selfless

Love is liberating and attachment is controlling

Mutual love makes a person his true nature, and each party is by nature and is not afraid to reveal weaknesses, and mutual trust develops, which is an incentive for the growth of the personality of both parties, because love transcends control because the partner accepts the other partner as he is, so he does not need to control.

Attachment tends to ignite controlling behavior, the partner may prefer that his partner spends time with him rather than spending time with friends, and can try to manipulate him whatever his feelings.

Love is growth and attachment is stressful

Love will make both parties grow as they reach the best version of themselves, better than each person can be on their own.

In the case of attachment, the desire to control and the inability to solve problems impedes the growth of both parties, which causes many problems and hinders each other.


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love growth

Love is expressed, but attachment is fleeting

Love lives with the passage of time, even if there is a separation between the two partners, there may be a state of love for the person in the heart with the hope that he will be successful in his life with all affection.

As for attachment in a state of attachment and then separation occurs, one feels resentment and may consider this as betrayal, because the other party thought that the partner was committed to making him happy and did not achieve that in the end.

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