The family is the basis of society which constitutes its basic social, cultural and economic unit. It plays an important role in the formation and development of the individual’s identity and skills, and determines his values ​​and beliefs that he inherits from one generation to the next, thus achieving psychological and social stability for individuals. From this standpoint, Dr. Muhammad Eid Al-Kilani, former Undersecretary of the Ministry of Awqaf, tells us the importance of making the right choice in building the family and society.

The former Undersecretary of the Ministry of Endowments said during his statements to “The Seventh Day”: “Islam took care of building the family, starting with the good choice and scrutiny of the life partner. He must be religious and moral.

And he added: “In the honorable hadith, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, says, “If someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you, then marry him. If you do not do this, there will be discord on earth and great corruption.” If this is the most important condition that must be met in the husband, then Islam also stipulates that the life partner must be the owner of a religion to build A strong and solid family produces individuals who are beneficial to society and are disciplined by the morals of religion and heavenly teachings.

And the former Undersecretary of the Ministry of Awqaf continued: “So, the basic criterion for building a family is a good choice from the beginning, and thus it will be a useful family that benefits society and makes them moral and religious. We have noticed recently the large number of family problems and the increase in divorce cases, and this may be due to the lack of scrutiny in the choice, Because there are those who marry for goals other than building a healthy family, that is, for the sake of appearance and beauty, or according to the social status and status of one of the spouses, forgetting that religion has set strong controls and made these controls, the most important of which is morals.

There are many ways that can help the family achieve psychological and social stability for its members. There must be effective communication between family members, listening carefully to each other’s ideas, and expressing frankly their feelings, opinions, and needs.. It sets common goals and works hard to achieve them, which helps to strengthen family ties, belonging and trust between family members.In addition to encouraging respect and tolerance and promoting moral and social values ​​that promote positive and cooperative behavior within the family and provide a safe and stable environment for its members.