The series “Darb Nar” is shown throughout the month of Ramadan and dealt with a great deal of social issues and situations that we encounter in our lives. Among the events, a scene came in which the star Yasmine Abdel Aziz admonishes her friend after she revealed that she had betrayed her trust in her and discovered that she was deceiving her and that her love was fake and she began to reveal her secret to her husband. The star Majed Al-Masry also revealed some of her secrets to her former lover, the star Ahmed Al-Awadi, and in several scenes she clarified the most prominent images of deception that come from the people closest to our hearts and the extent of the psychological damage that we are exposed to in this case.

In the following lines, “The Seventh Day” reviews some important steps for coexistence again after being deceived by your close friend, according to what Muhammad Mostafa, a psychological consultant, indicated.

The psychological consultant said in his interview with Al-Youm Al-Sabea: “When a person is exposed to fake or unreal love one day, he feels sadness and pain, and finds it difficult to move on with his life. The following are some tips that help the individual overcome the pain of treachery and falsehood.

The trap of not trusting others

He continued: “Treachery Or the fake love that comes from friends or people we trusted lies in the fact that we trust people we think are good, and when we discover that they are different from the picture drawn, we feel pain and sadness, and failure to deal with the matter may lead to falling into the trap of generalization, so we see that all human beings we cannot trust With them, the problem turns from treachery to the problem of mistrust of others. Consequently, the individual enters into isolation and isolation in order to avoid the risks of being harmed again.

Forgive yourself and live with the grief

And he continued: “When you are betrayed, the person often blames himself, and remembers the warnings of others not to trust this person, and hopes that he had not listened to their advice. If we want to recover from the pain of treachery, we must forgive ourselves, and accept the emotions and feelings of sadness and pain. And accepting it helps us heal and open up to others again.

Watch out for things that cause you pain

And he continued: “It is about that we trusted the wrong person, and sometimes the matter develops into a lack of confidence in the loyalty of those around us, especially when we see a friend of ours publish a picture in which the person who betrayed us and destroyed the covenant and trust between us is present, perhaps the obsession reaches that we accuse him of treason just because Writing a comment on his own Facebook post, it doesn’t make sense to make everyone avoid the person who betrayed me.

A new chance for life

And he confirms: “This behavior may make us reconsider many aspects of our lives, as well as re-evaluate most of our relationship with others, which is reflected in the personal growth of the individual, and learning here is by abandoning defense mechanisms such as feeling guilty or blaming others. The lesson may be that Trust your instincts, or later listen to the advice of others