Mona Shaker, a family consultant, told Youm7: “The shock of betrayal and the feeling of lethal betrayal experienced by the wife after years of marriage and the ten stages that crises go through in her life with her life partner make her start with questions: Am I the reason for the betrayal, did he stop loving me? Has my appearance changed, and she begins to lose her self-confidence.

Husband’s betrayal is not your responsibility and there is no deficiency in you

The family counselor added: The only way to confront these thoughts that destroy confidence and negative feelings is to confront them with many logical ideas, the most important of which are:

One of the reasons for treason may be that the man is unable to keep the trust, or is unable to assume responsibilities towards his family, so he is looking for a new place free of any responsibility.

A man’s multiple relationships are one of his negatives in general, not because you don’t fill his eyes, but there can be men with negative qualities.

Your steadfastness and maintaining your mental health is necessary for the sake of your children, because motherhood is instinct and not a choice to abandon your children.

Dealing with betrayal:

– Make sure to maintain your emotional stability, not to leave your children, take into account your responsibility, and preserve your health and the psychological health of your children.

– Seeking revenge, knowing the reasons, or drawing attention does not work, so check yourself, be confident, and provide self-support for yourself if you lack the support of others.

– Make sure to achieve new achievements and alternative plans for the previous life, and renew interest in your children and do not make them a scapegoat for the father’s mistakes. And be careful not to mention the father’s negatives in front of the children in order to preserve their feelings.