Although the series “Jet Salima” starring Donia Samir Ghanem revolves around the framework of comedy, it touched on many important social issues such as bullying as well as forcing the girl to get engaged to someone she does not want by her father’s wife. Salima’s character is an orphan girl who lives with a wife. Her father forced her to get engaged to Karim Afifi, whom she suffers from as being stingy and not loving him.

During the following lines, “The Seventh Day” reviews the psychological damage to this problem and the role of the father in forced marriage or engagement, according to Mona Shaker, a family relations consultant.

The dangers of forced marriage or betrothal

The family consultant said to “The Seventh Day”: “Marriage or engagement must have the appropriate choice to build a healthy life in which there is happiness, acceptance and contentment, so that endurance is available to survive in this life and strive to make it a success, and all this does not come with coercion and coercion at all, also when one of the parties feels that he is forced.” On the other hand, at that time, there is no place for any other feeling, no matter how much the other side seeks to change this feeling, because a person naturally loves, gets tired, and is happy with what he chose, not what he was forced to do.

And she continued: “When one of the two parties feels that it was a lifeline for the life of the other in order to extract him from the pain or lack of what follows with him throughout the time of pain, humiliation and ill-treatment, which hurts the other party, radiates him inferiority, which leads to countless psychological pressures for you, also when this is done and continues.” Marriage and results in children who live in the same hell, and it continues and passes through all their stages when they reach the age of marriage. Most of the time, they inherit coercion, and their desires to choose are not considered until they live the same experience, including grief and pain, under the slogan that no one is better than anyone except the one who decided to get out of this robe. And it may turn into a slogan that is more harmful to your comfort, this is your life, even if all the harm is in this choice, but the horror of coercion still hangs over the memories, so the wise men from the father or mother stop to advise the children and help them make a good choice. .

And she continued: “When thinking that forced marriage is the way to get rid of responsibility from the children, it is a completely wrong thought because it often fails and the responsibility may multiply with young grandchildren and turn into a mere failed marriage experience that resulted in children and separated families. Also, the father must remain supportive and appointed for his children and not throw them away.” For a marriage project in order to reduce his burden, relieve himself, and devote himself to his life, he is a shepherd and responsible for them until they find what makes them happy and agrees with them.

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