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Respect for the elder is a value that must be instilled in children from their birth, and one of the most wrong things that some parents do is to encourage the child in his infancy to some wrong behaviors that involve disrespect for the elder, such as “beat my uncle, my love,” and with that sentence, whatever it is said while the child is unconscious, It sinks into his subconscious mind and makes him not care about respecting the great. Dr. Salma Abu Al-Yazid, a mental health consultant, told Al-Youm Al-Sabea that the quest to raise a respectable child who respects others starts from the earliest age, and she added that the holy month of Ramadan can be socially exploited to be the father. And the mother is a role model for their children, because the child learns from others when he sees them doing so, stressing that there are several methods that must be adhered to in order to create a child who respects and appreciates adults.
To set an example
One of the most common situations that occur in Ramadan is sitting together with all family members, and gathering and discussing many issues, whether family or societal, here the child observes the way you speak, and your respect for adults and their opinion even if they have an opinion that differs from yours.
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Respect when asked
Your child must come with a request for something. Here you have to notice the way he talks to you and the way he asks for it. If he comes to you with the request in a polite way that respects you, he should thank him for his way and respect you, and do not hesitate to discuss the extent of his need for this request, and do not agree to hear any words. Vulgar, even if his intention is good, there are words that should not be said to adults.
Remember that your child is not your friend
There is no objection to being a friend to your child, as this develops the relationship between you, but you must always remember that you are his first teacher, and your first task is to train him to deal with respect with others.
The mental health consultant said that confronting this disrespectful behavior is one of the most important things that must be stopped.
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Teach him social interaction skills
It is important to teach the child some basic sentences that must be in the basics of his conversation with others, such as: “Thank you, please, please, present” and that with any person, not just the adult, until he gets used to it and is necessary to respect him throughout his life.
Be respectful with your child
When a child does something wrong or speaks inappropriately, the psychiatric consultant says that you have to talk to him calmly without shouting, while advising him in a respectful way, so that you can set an example for him.
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