Jaafar Al-Omda.. a relationship consultant who provides tips for dealing with selfish co-parents
Amman Today
publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
The Jaafar Al-Omda series dealt with many social issues, especially the issue of polygamy. There were several scenes that showed Narges, Jaafar’s wife, “Muhammad Ramadan”, dealing with selfishness and self-love with the rest of the duties.
And as the popular proverb says, “The wife is once, even if she is a pitcher.” When a man marries a woman other than his first wife, a defect and a rift occurs in his home and his relationship with his first wife, and many errors occur in the human relationship that is the basis of life, so he reviews “The Seventh Day” during The following lines are the most prominent tips for dealing with a selfish personality, according to Hala Al-Azab, a human relations consultant.
Jaafar Al-Omda series
Selfish harm and making up problems
The human relations consultant said in her interview with Youm7: “These problems may exacerbate when the husband marries a selfish co-wife, so she creates problems so that the husband is forced to calm her down and carry out her orders. With his second wife and children.
And she continued: “With regard to money, a lot of problems may occur if you know that the other wife has asked for any amount of money for her and her children, or any pieces of the house’s furniture have been changed, which may raise some problems and try to imitate.
How to deal with selfish harm
And she continued: “The wife must be calm and dignified, to be at a level of rationality, so a special dialogue session must be held between her and her husband, provided that she agrees with him that all the dialogues that take place between them are kept confidential and that he is bound by everything that will be agreed upon.” .
And she affirms: “There must be a distinction between them in housing, so that the selfish wife does not turn into a watchtower for her second husband’s house, and does not work to create problems with her on every big and small, in addition to that there must be equality and no material discrimination or a decrease in the expenses of the non-selfish wife.” And fairness in visits and overnight days, so the children must know that their father cares about their affairs and their mother’s affairs, since there is a selfish and jealous wife, so distancing is better than rapprochement, so that the jealousy and selfishness of the selfish wife will not be aroused by unintended actions from the other wife.
Public events
And she says: “It is preferable in public and private occasions for the two wives not to be in one place so that the selfish wife does not monopolize her husband and try to arouse the jealousy of the other wife, and therefore some unpleasant problems may occur in front of others. If their presence is necessary, the husband should try to keep them away from each other’s surroundings, even The day passes peacefully, and it is better on this day that the husband does not try to thank and praise the beauty and elegance of the wives in front of each other.”
And she continues: “The husband does not try to take one wife, and the second comes alone, but rather he brings each wife alone and delivers her. One of the most important things is that the husband cares about the children’s psychological condition. Every problem of a married father, wife, and selfish mother may spoil the children’s psyche and make them feel insecure and instability in the families.” .
Etiquette dealing with selfish harm
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