7 steps to teach a child how to deal with bullies, the most important of which is calmness
Amman Today
publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
Bullying is one of the bad methods used by some to belittle or despise a person or reduce self-confidence, and according to UNICEF, it is also a form of violence practiced by a child or a group of children against another child or disturbing him in a deliberate and repeated manner, and it has many forms, such as spreading rumors and threatening, Or insulting him physically or verbally, and what is the role that parents should play in preserving their child from bullying and bullies? allprodad.
Keep calm
One of the first tips that adults say to their children in this situation is the need to keep calm, and alert them that this person’s main goal is to control you and you are afraid of him, and remaining calm applies to all situations that raise anxiety, so think clearly and speak little, as the bully is looking for any reaction Don’t give him what he wants.
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walk away
You must always remember that the bully wants a reaction more than anything else, and turning away from him is the simplest reaction that makes him lose his ability to continue his bullying, and causes him to become distracted, and your absence to hear threats or insults from the bully stops his behavior towards you.
Be with your friends
Always plan to walk with a friend or two. A bully is a coward and afraid of groups. Always be surrounded by supportive friends.
Face your fears
In some cases, confronting the bully is your only option. Simply stand up for yourself and tell the person to stop. You can also use some responses such as, “Aren’t you tired of this yet?” or “I have better things to do than listen to these negative words” and walk away.
Child rearing
Know your enemy
The most powerful weapon on earth is the human mind, your son should use it, and tell him to consider the person who is bullying you and the circumstances in which they may be, in almost all cases, acting in response to problems in their lives, they may be abused or neglected.
Tell an adult
If the bullying turns into threats of violence or emotional harm, it’s time to tell your parents or teachers, let the adult know exactly what was going on, and take appropriate steps to end it.
Confronting bullying
Self confidence
Children with low self-esteem are likely to be targets for bullying. Take steps to improve this, and learn martial arts such as taekwondo to help the child gain confidence as well as maturity.
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