Service and Washa: “Death deprived me of my father and mother, and greed for inheritance deprived me of my brothers.”
Amman Today
publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
My problem started after the death of my father and my mother. I am the youngest of my brothers. I am 38 years old. I am married and have two children. I have one brother and 4 daughters. Before my father’s death, my brother asked to take his right to the house and get out of it. He brought people, evaluated the house and its price, and took his right as he said. My mother died after my father. Three months after the death of my mother until now, my brother did not enter the house as if he no longer had a brother, and he did not even meet me in the street and talk to me or anything, even when there were problems with the neighbors and they went to complain about me to him. He refused to intervene and said that he had nothing to do with me..
My mother’s last night in life, she begged him to return home, but he refused, and even my father, before his departure, was begging him to return home, but he refused, and we all boycotted him two years ago..
As for the rest of my daughters’ brothers, their right to the house was registered alone, but the lawyer who wrote the contract did not attend and did not measure the area. I refused and explained to him that in this way it would harm the house. He refused and stuck to his opinion. Even when the Sheikh of the country witnessed us and confirmed my words, he rejected his opinion and threatened to imprison me. My sister herself attacked me and said, for me, you are dead. They insisted on their word and erected the wall in the wrong place. My other sister is fighting to get me out of the house, and the third is pushing her daughter-in-law to falsely claim that I assaulted and robbed them. Now I feel that if I die, I do not want any of them to enter or walk in my funeral. And I wrote this will of mine on Facebook from what I saw of them. After the problem of the wall, they all became together, and I am alone, and I have nothing but God, my wife, and my children. Is it my fault that they interrupted me? How do I get over what they did to me?
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Dear reader, we understand the degree of pain, loneliness and shock you feel from everything that happened between you and your siblings, especially since they are older than you and you were expecting them to be your support and support and to compensate you for your lost parents. You shared many details with us, but we did not know the most important thing. Was your relationship okay before the inheritance dispute? And do you have anything to do with your brother being away from home, so you wonder if you bear the guilt of that or not? We do not know the reason for his insistence on moving away from home and leaving it and not even fulfilling his mother’s wish to see him one last time before her departure. However, Dr. Reham Abdel-Rahman, a researcher in psychological and educational counseling at Cairo University, says that your brother obtained his legal right to inheritance during his father’s life, and that he accepted that and did not refuse, and therefore you did not infringe on his right..
You also mentioned the extent to which your mother begged him to visit you, but he did not acquiesce to her last request..
She added that there is nothing more difficult than betrayal, especially when it is between brothers and relatives, and what happened with you, my dear brother, is a product of greed and love for the world on the part of your brothers. And she continued: Whatever the difference is over the inheritance, it is not right for the brothers to have greed take over their hearts, because the world is mortal and does not deserve all these hateful conflicts..
Also, you must know the main reason for the difference is education on greed, selfishness, and self-love at the expense of the closest people, and this may be a lesson and admonition for you to bring up your children to love goodness for others and to be fair in dealing between them, and it is enough for you to know that severing the ties of kinship is one of the causes of God’s wrath Almighty.
Therefore, I advise you to ask about them and check their conditions, no matter how bad they mistreat you, knowing the direct and hidden reason in their souls behind this cruel treatment, and I also advise you not to burden yourself beyond what you should..
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