There are many reasons for children to become aggressive, including the nature of violent electronic games based on stalking and fighting, and this negatively affected our children’s feelings, and it was represented in anger, aggression, frustration and harm. Dr. Salma Abu al-Yazid, a psychiatrist and mental health consultant, says in her interview with “The Seventh Day” There are some ways to treat this personality, including:

Not generalizing

The mental health consultant said that the parents’ talk with the child in a generalized manner may increase your child’s anger, causing him to appear aggressive, such as “You are always nervous” or “You are always loud.” This method may make him feel that those around him do not care about him and do not know his actions. It makes him repeat the action a lot, so the solution here is to overlook mistakes as long as possible, and not to mention them directly in front of him, or to reprimand him in front of others.

Find out what triggers it and gradually avoid it

You have to focus well with your child, on his actions, and when this aggressive behavior appears. If it is from playing a specific game, you can gradually withdraw it from him, while giving him an interesting alternative, so that he can be distracted from it with something new. Until he gets rid of the feeling of being watched, and starts attacking and being aggressive.

Child rearing

warn him

The mental health consultant confirmed that when the mother reaches that stage with her child, she can warn him of the consequences when the symptoms of aggression begin, for example when the child’s voice begins to rise and his movement becomes faster, it is the beginning of the emotion, so here comes the role of the mother, by saying, You are about to act aggressively and this is what causes In the event that you receive a severe punishment, you must back off, and if you are forced to meet the person who provokes his anger, you must warn him not to focus on his actions and actions, assuring him that if he notices that he has started to raise his voice, he will distance himself from them and take time to calm down.

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Speak clearly

The mother should talk to her child calmly and clearly, so that he can speak without fear of what he feels, and this will make his treatment easy, and get rid of this problem faster.