A new year without a family problem.. Tips to avoid the “family court” and keep you away from the specter of divorce
Amman Today
publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
At the beginning of each year, each of us rearranges his affairs and searches for a new beginning, and one of the most important things that must be preserved in life is your relationship with your family and the stability of your marital life, which necessitates the spouses to make more efforts, as there are no relationships that are immune from marital disputes and the occurrence of arguments, Rather, the problem can be found in the way to solve it, and to overcome any imbalance that occurs between the spouses. Mutual respect is sufficient to end any conflict at its beginning, to control matters, and to lose control over emotions, so that the spouses do not fall into the trap of differences that may threaten their marriage and put them in the crosshairs. The family court has been prosecuted in many lawsuits, the most prominent of which are disobedience, obedience, expenses of all kinds, seeing, divorce and imprisonment if they fail to fulfill their obligations.
In the following lines, we highlight the most important reasons that drive wives and husbands to escape from the marital nest, and some advice from experts to avoid them in order to protect the spouses and help them avoid the specter of divorce.
Avoid family feuds
Marital disputes arise between the spouses, when they forget the ten, the love, affection and mercy that was between them, the most prominent thing said by the specialist in family affairs, Walid Khalaf, to confirm: “Family rivalry begins between the spouses in the absence of understanding, so most of the cases that are considered before the family courts The main reason for it is the rejection of The spouses discuss and insist on their position and point of view, so that mutual accusations surface, and the differences between husbands and wives intensify, in light of the husbands accusing the wives of exaggeration, and the wives respond by accusing the husbands of neglect and abandoning responsibility.
The specialist in family affairs explains that the law gives several rights to the wife and her children after the divorce, and determines the wages of the divorced woman who has custody in return for her custody of the children according to the elements of the salary and the income received by the husband, in addition to the wages for breast-feeding, and alimony for the children, their treatment expenses, tuition fees, clothing expenses, and the allowance for mattresses and blankets. This is provided that the wife or the divorced lady presents receipts and invoices as documents proving her expenditures until she recovers them from her husband.
And he continued: “Article 18 bis of Law No. 25 of 1929 amended by Law No. 100 of 1985 of the Personal Status Law states that: “The father is obligated to alimony for his children as much as he has left of food, clothing, housing, and so on.”
And the specialist confirms: “The alimony for the wife or children is considered a debt owed by the husband from the date of his refusal to spend with his obligation, so that it does not fall except by payment or discharge, and the wife’s alimony debt is considered a privilege over all the husband’s money.”
Impulse control
For his part, Ahmed Omar, a specialist in marital relations, said that the spouses must control the emotions so that the problems do not increase between them, present the point of view in a friendly manner, avoid using offensive words in the event of an argument, avoid loud voices, avoid screaming, seek respect, and avoid thinking. Both of them are in themselves and avoid selfishness, and try to exploit any opportunities for rapprochement and partnership so that the two parties, unlike them, do not reach indifference and cause a gap between them.
And he continued: “I advise any couple to have privacy, because the solution to eliminating problems lies in not involving any third party in your marital life, and concealing private problems away from family or friends, and setting limits with others regarding your marital relationship without shocking any of the relatives or those who think themselves friends.” “.
Cases in the “corridors of family courts”
Within the family courts, there are many lawsuits filed by a couple who fell into a vortex of family disputes. One of the wives said during her filing a divorce lawsuit for harm against her husband, accusing him of causing her material and moral harm: “My husband beat me, accused me of negligence in taking care of my children, and he cursed and slandered me in front of everyone.” According to the testimonies of the witnesses and the documents that I submitted to the court and attached to the communication filed against him.
The wife indicated: “After 4 years of marriage and continuous disputes, because of his family’s interference in my life and their greed for the sums of money that I get from my work, and when I objected, I was violent at their hands, which created problems between us, because of my request from my husband to set limits for the relationship and from here and began the collapse of our marriage, for not I put up with his insane behavior, which amounted to insulting me in front of my friends.
And another case in which one of the wives, who demanded custody, said before the Family Court in October, after her husband abused her, his marriage, his disappearance, and misleading her at the hands of his family, preventing her from entering her apartment, imprisoning her in the “family home,” and forcing her to sign a waiver of her rights: “My husband abandoned me since For more than a year and a half, he refused to spend on his children, only to find out after that he was married, and when I filed expenses claims against him and demanded his imprisonment, he disappeared, depriving me of my children and giving them to his family.
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