publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00
“I am engaged to a person and I feel that it is not suitable for me, but my brother sees that it is suitable because I am old, and I am not convinced of my words and want to allow me and salvation, I do not know what to do or refuse how, especially since my family sees my objection without strong reasons, what is the solution?”
We transferred the problem to Dr. Eman Abdullah, a consultant in mental health and family relations, where she said that God Almighty in His Noble Book said, “He created for you spouses from yourselves that you may reside in them,” which explains that the basis for residential marriage, security and comfort, and not pleasing to anyone, which makes the end of Some marriages are divorce, and the complainant has a problem communicating with the family, which made them consider her refusal to be unjustified, if she works or even has nothing to occupy her, as soon as she gets older they insist on her relationship with anyone even if it is not suitable for her.
Therefore, the family relations consultant made it clear that the solution to the problem lies in the owner, she must speak with her brother clearly, emphasizing her fears of lack of understanding with her fiancé after marriage, highlighting the points of contradiction and difference between them, and if her brother is not on the level of understanding with her, then she must resort To one of the elders of the family and present her problem to him, and she must also make sure that her age will not be an obstacle for her to find someone who understands her and who will have safety and life because she will live the rest of her life with him.
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