My problem started after the first 3 months of marriage, his interest in me began to decrease, at first I was growing in my brain, and sometimes I asked him for attention, and I was saying I wanted to hear sweet words, and his reaction was that he was laughing, and the days passed from a second year to a third until suddenly I found I have been married for 12 years and asked for a divorce more than once, and he refused, and I have never heard a good or an opposite word, but he is a good person and is not stingy in financial terms… How should I act?

We transferred the problem to Dr. Reham Abdel Rahman, a researcher in mental health and family counseling, who said, “The man in married life is different in nature and way of thinking about the woman, as the wife is always looking for the words of flirtation, romance and love, while the man expresses love through his actions and his responsibility. towards his family, and most psychological studies and research have confirmed that the words of love and romance decrease between men and women with the increase in the years of marriage, and the reason for this is to ensure the presence of the other party and to be preoccupied with the requirements of children and the challenges of difficult life, which makes the marital relationship less words of romance and love between the two parties and this of course affects on the psyche of the woman and the degree of her self-confidence.

She added, “You should have a dialogue with your husband to bring back the romantic memories between you, such as the memories of the first days of marriage, for example, and to confirm that you still carry him all the romantic feelings as you used to with him.Renewal and change of appearance, and take care of yourself in a way that draws his attention and is compatible with your personality and values.Practicing love using words of support and encouragement, the husband may not express love as a kind of shyness or misunderstanding of love as showing feelings of weakness in front of the woman, and therefore you have to know the reasons, and practice these positive words between you naturally and daily until he gets used to it..

And she continued, “Frankness and clarity are the best things towards your husband, and there is no shame in that, but you have to choose the right time and place, andYou mentioned that your husband is generous in nature, and therefore he is generous in feelings, but all you have to do is stir these stagnant feelings using words of support and encouragement, and start on your part. Married life requires a lot of striving to reach the desired happiness.

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