“I have been working as a teacher for 20 years, I love my profession very much and my children, but from a while ago I lost my hearing and this affected my psyche. I worked as a headset and stayed, thank God, I listen, but I have colleagues at work who tire me and mean to make me feel that I am less than them, and seriously trouble me psychologically, and I think I work as an early pension, but I really want my job, please advise how to act? I will give them the world and make an early pension and I do not better and prove myself by working with my students, I began to feel that I am less seriously than everyone because of them.”

We conveyed the problem to Dr. Reham Abdel Rahman, a family consultant and researcher in mental health, who said: “The experience of hearing impairment is one of the painful experiences and difficult tests in life, because the patient suffers from emotional and behavioral disorders such as anxiety, depression, or the inability to integrate with others, especially In the work environment, so you must first make sure that your feelings are correct and that what you are facing from the bullying of your co-workers is real and not the result of your feeling of a loss of inner confidence..

And she continued, “There are many types of bullying, such as physical, verbal and psychological bullying and bullying within the work environment, and this is the type that you are exposed to, and therefore led to your feeling of frustration and a lot of negative feelings that you are facing at the present time:

Not wanting to go to work again.

Feeling ostracized and disrespected by others.

Feeling stressed, anxious, lack of self-confidence, overthinking.

Introversion and poor relationship with co-workers.

Try to withdraw and think about early retirement.

And she added, “And until you get rid of these negative feelings, I advise you not to give up and ask for an early retirement, but you have to be patient and not show your anger or be affected by their negative behavior towards you, so as not to give them a chance to see you angry. Know that strength and self-confidence stem from within the human being, by showing determination and will in the face of bullying.” others.

And she continued, “You also have to enhance your self-confidence by paying attention to your external appearance, and constantly developing yourself through reading, exercising, and expressing yourself strongly and positively. Finally, your request for early retirement is revenge against yourself and an escape from a boring reality..

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