The courtship period is one of the most important periods in the life of any two people preparing for marriage, as it helps them to get to know each other more and adapt to their shortcomings, before marriage, but some signs may appear on the man that alert the woman to the need to think about marrying him, which he reviews “The Seventh Day” With Reham Abdel Rahman, a family relations consultant.

Qualities that are found in a man, the engagement must be annulled

Lack of religious faith:

Married life is not based only on appearances and formalities, but on piety and religion and the amount of material, social and spiritual equality between the two parties, and the religious factor is one of the important factors with which marital life is straight..

Constantly lying:

One of the things that trouble the girl’s psyche is dealing with a deceptive person who always lies, which makes her feel unstable, uncomfortable and safe in completing this relationship, because lying makes her doubt him and do not trust him.

weak man:

The dream of any girl is to be associated with a man of strong personality and self-confidence who can take over matters alone, which makes her feel safe with him, on the emotional attachment to a man of weak personality, as this negatively affects the girl’s psyche, especially since he cannot bear responsibility and make decisions alone..

Intellectual incompatibility:

Intellectual and psychological compatibility is one of the most important components of a healthy emotional relationship between the two parties..

Presence of an undisclosed disease or birth defect:

A condition of the validity of engagement and marriage is frankness between the two parties, especially if there is a disease or a congenital defect that one of the parties suffers from, for the sake of clarity and not building a married life on lies and slander.

Lack of respect and appreciation:

The courtship period is a period in which each party gives respect and appreciation to the other party and the lack of respect and appreciation for the girl’s personality or respect for her goals in life, means that there is a defect in this relationship and it must be reconsidered.

Excess nervousness:

The nature of humans is to express their feelings in times of anger, but the girl must take this into account when choosing a life partner, and notice his reaction when angry. If he hurt her feelings with some words or assaulted her physically or verbally, she must break the engagement.

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