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How do you deal with personal reliability and don’t let its owner take advantage of you?

Amman Today

publish date 1970-01-01 03:00:00

The dependent personality suffers from a psychological disorder, which is called dependent personality disorder, and it occurs in some people we call “dependents” and they suffer from a problem in communication and the inability to solve their problems on their own, and they depend in meeting their physical and psychological needs on dependence and dependence on others. In order to be able to deal with the exploitation of the dependency personality, Dr. Lamis Makkawi, a teacher of behavioral medicine and children’s neurology at Ain Shams University, presented in her speech to “The Seventh Day” several characteristics that characterize the dependency personality and the correct ways to deal with it. As a result of genetic factors, it may reach 50% of cases who suffer from dependent personality disorder due to a disorder in the genetic genes of the mother, and dependent personality is found more in females than males, and its percentage reaches 0.50% of the community.

Dependent personality traits:

The behavioral medicine teacher identified several characteristics of people with dependency personality, and said that they tend to isolate and have mistrust in their decisions, do not have social intelligence and do not like social participation, do not prefer being in crowded places, in addition to their inability to express their opinion in public.

They also do not have self-confidence, and the dependency personality also avoids taking responsibility, so they avoid jobs in which decisions are made, so it is always preferable to be a follower and not a decision maker.

The dependent personality is afraid of expressing an opinion and objecting to the opinions of others so as not to be attacked, they suffer from a terrible pathological fear of the idea of ​​losing some people and getting away from others, they are also somewhat naive characters.

The dependent personality fears loneliness, although it tends to isolate often, but it derives its strength from others, so it is a personality that lacks confidence and independence and is unable to make any decisions.

Ways to deal with dependency personality:


This character depends on emotional blackmail. Emotions always enter into their dealings, so when dealing with them, we put emotions aside and do not respond to their emotional blackmail.

When we ask for something from the dependent person, we ask for it in the order form and not in the form of the request, because if you ask for it in the form of the request, the dependent person will try to evade it, but in the order form he implements it immediately.

And you should always strive to motivate the dependable personality and praise the positive aspects so that the owner feels confident and responsible.

As well as confronting the dependent person with the crisis they are exposed to, for example, we tell him, “I know that you are evading responsibility or that you cannot work alone or are unable to make a decision” and try to help him overcome his problem and support him psychologically and morally.

Finally, do not respond to the requests of the dependable personality and do not make him surrender to his weakness and dependence on others, and that he is always subordinate and is number 2, but you have to help him, as we mentioned, to make the decision.


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