Each of us has his secrets and his private life that he must keep to himself and no one tells anything about them. So family secrets that do not go outside the scope of family members. There is a saying that says: “If your chest is tired of your secret, what about others?” But the keeper of secrets must be a deep well from which he never comes out, no matter what the temptations are as well, or the urging of some to find out what is going on behind them and it will not benefit them, as the expert in etiquette and human relations, Dr. Hala Al-Azab, explained in her speech to “The Seventh Day,” where she confirmed that there are rules Etiquette in dealing with secrets in a way that earns us the respect of those around us.

It is forbidden to bring children

Even if the child initiates and talks about the secrets of his house, others should not lure the children to know the secrets of the houses, even the simple ones. Parents must warn the children that the secrets of the house are considered family-related and it is not permissible to disclose them.

Knowing someone’s salary

Some things may be very secret matters for some, including salary, inheritance, trade and family relations, it is never right to ask about them, and when they are known in one way or another, they should not be talked about in the middle of a council, whether the person concerned is present or not.

special relationship

Whether from a friend or girlfriend, questions about the special relationship between spouses because of its privacy, confidentiality and deprivation, we should not talk about it or allow anyone to talk about it in front of us, and it must be stopped immediately.

Post problems on social media

When we see a mutual friend post a problem on one of the closed Facebook groups to ask for advice, a point that the etiquette expert considered a double-edged sword, the one who writes this problem may be looking for a solution or wanting to end it, so when we see the problem post, we should never publish it and not express Opinion unless the owner of the problem clearly asks for your opinion, and you are not a party to the whole world’s knowledge of it.

Respect the secret at the time of adversity

Among the most evil people are the ones who reveal secrets when problems under the pretext of harming their opponents. If you cannot keep the secret, do not insure yourself on the secrets of others, and always remember that this person who entrusted you with his secret has put his trust in you and revealed his jacket to you so that he has an oasis of safety and reassurance, I respect everything that Hear him put yourself in his place, do not let him down.

Do not allow anyone to enter into other people’s secrets in front of you

Do not allow anyone to delve into other people’s secrets in front of you, but without sharpness or embarrassment, you just have to not keep up and take the right time to change the subject, so that you are not a party to a bad discussion and also earn everyone’s respect.