“All people know the details of their lives and are surprised why this happens.” This repeated comment circulated by the social media on the shocking case of a young wife who killed her husband, who was flirting with her all the time on social media, although the details of the crime are still under investigation, social media users They began exchanging comments on the story, denouncing that the details of the two’s married life were exposed in this way.

And about the delicate hair that separates the expression of appreciation and gratitude between the spouses and the waste of the privacy of the marital relationship, Dr. Amal Shams, professor of sociology at Ain Shams University, spoke to “The Seventh Day” about the way to maintain the privacy of the relationship and the risks of complacency.

The dangers of neglecting the privacy of the marital relationship:

The professor of sociology said that one of the main reasons for the failure of the marital relationship is to review the idiosyncrasies and details that should not be talked about in front of others, whether they are friends or even family, adding that flaunting the ideal married life and its appearance on social networking sites in a good and exaggerated manner may expose its owner to Problems, so his life becomes a target and a focus of attention and covetousness for the owners of sick souls.

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And she added that reviewing the blessings may also make those around you want to live like you, even if what you offer is largely incorrect, explaining that even if those close to us should never know what is going on inside the house, even if it appears that the matter is normal, but it may cause crises. You need it.

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How to maintain the privacy of married life:

The professor of sociology continued, that married life must be surrounded by a fence of iron, and only the husband and wife can manage it, and it should never be penetrated by anyone. She also set points to preserve the privacy of married life, including:

Not to show joy or sadness on social networking sites. Joy and sadness are feelings that should not be shared publicly, especially if they are related to expressing disappointment in the partner or lack of certain feelings.

Not to allow anyone, no matter how close they are, to interfere in the affairs of the spouses, whether friends or relatives, with immediate control over the problems they face, and not to hear of her leaving them or talking about them with anyone.

Controlling feelings and not showing them in an exaggerated way in front of others, as exaggeration may cause the appearance of hatred and wishing for the blessings that are in their hands.

The professor of sociology also advised couples that if life is sweet, it is between you, overlook the bad and do not talk about your goals and your happiness in front of anyone, no matter what.